Posts Tagged ‘Affection’

Question by Wherethesundontevershine: I want him to show me more affection?
I have been going out with this guy for about 4 days now and we met to go shopping today, but we ran into our other friends and ended up just talking and stuff. I want him to be more affectionate towards me he told me how he feels and complimented me and i did back… but he didn’t hug or kiss me. He rings me every night, and i want to say something but i don’t know what? i want to hint that its ok to touch me and stuff.

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Answer by ??Love From ??? Lisa??
Its only 4 days so give him a little more time to get to know you first. There is no rush. However, you could always reach out to hold his hand when out something like that for starters x

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Display of Affection in Public

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Let it be Lodhi Garden or garden Of Five Senses, either be PVR or Paras Cinema, one thing you will find common in all is… NO! Its neither roses nor latest bollywood flicks but they are Delhi’ most favorite things- love birds. (Not actual birds but humans with love wings).

At each and every corner of such places you will find these pair of lovers mingling up with each other, as if given opportunity they will enter each other’s aura. Not only this, but the situation gets worsen when these people thinking of themselves as Adams and eves( their dresses no less revealing than the real Adam-eve), don’t mind locking lips in public and without hesitation cross the line of society’s shame.

This scene is obviously enjoyed by the youth watching, but is not less than a horror movie for small kids coming there and families passing by. The only punishment they have to face is- raised eyebrows of people passing by.

In earlier epoch, a couple didn’t even dare to hold hands at such places. But, in those times even movies showed nothing more than just flowers kissing each other. Step by step, with the society dipping into the western influence, the great Indian culture has lost its roots and the society has become daring enough to except these relations.

Whole lot of moral policing creates fuss for such displays, but, if one take both the flip sides of a coin, if displays aren’t that ‘thwarting’, i.e., if it just involves holding hands, can be easily digested with just a relieved sigh that love still exists.

But, if all the lines are crossed and mingling up of two bodies is displayed in public, it would definitely affect the psychology of kids, as well as will be rejected by the elderly.

But all this , serves a profit for one section of society- those called as police and authorities. Taking a good amount by harassing makes a good part of a policeman. In a recent case, a loud couple when targeted at Japanese Park at rohini, the boy was released after payment opf 20, 000, but the girl was supposed to sleep with the officer for three hours. Also, the guards of parks and such places ask for a good amount to even provide rooms with the protection from police.

They say you can do anything in love, but somebody forget to tell these tyoungsters, that they got to do it inside closed rooms! Yes, this can be true love , but love is something which doesn’t needs any definition or explanation or expression. It’s understood in itself.

Watching every movie star kissing his/her girlfriend in front of a huge public obviously, creates a desire in each one of us to let the world know how much we love our soul mate.

But people, you got to admit that those actors are paid for this, and no one is gong to give you even a penny!

Sameer, who works at a call center says- “ I hardly manage to meet my girlfriend, and when we do so, its important to fulfill each-other’s needs and desires? Moreover, parks are peaceful places, and so one has to adjust.”

But my dear Mr. Sameer, if parks were meant for lovers, they would have kept names like ‘Green-Honeymoon’, or The Lover’s Resort and they would have charged rents as per hours. We need to understand the importance of respecting the society and so, no matter how true your love is- it becomes more Godly and spiritual when such pieces of loud intimate behaviors are done after getting tied in a knot.

Anniversary Gifts: Promises of Care and Affection

Marriages are made in heaven and so anniversary is a promising occasion in a person’s life. People celebrate their anniversary at different places or in exotic vacation destinations by throwing a grand party. In such an occasion nothing is better to express your feelings and emotions then an anniversary gift. Anniversary gift might be any thing, a diamond necklace or a sapphire or even flowers to win hearts. Diamonds and sapphire cost a little high. If you intend to follow a rational budget, then varieties of items are available in store. But it is convenient to browse websites while seeking for such precious occasion gifts. You can purchase the best items after choosing and at reasonable prices. You can shop from office and get it delivered to your house to please your spouse and show that you still remember the date.

If you are really in a mood to please your partner then leave a personalized message with gifts. Try decorating the gift. Taking her to dinner and presenting the gift is a rocking idea. If this is your first anniversary then you should never miss to gift a precious gift. A linen piece also makes a good gift. Before gifting anything it is worthy to know his/her taste, as for example; colour, pet animals, designs of ornaments or silk apparel and such. As your mission is to make your partner happy and the date memorable, so you need to invest such effort.

If you want to wish your parents anniversary then find sometime that will make the date memorable. If you are down-to-earth couples then pragmatic gifts is also a praiseworthy idea.

Every anniversary has its own significance and symbolizes promises to stay together in the bad or good times. As it is a special occasion so the Anniversary Gifts should be precious and eligible to express your feelings.

Cheap Gift Precious Affection

Thanksgiving Day is coming. Christmas is coming too. You must be busy in choosing fine gifts for your families and friends. Have you found that it difficult to find a best gift for everyone?

It would be best if the gift is first-rate, attractive and of course with reasonable price. And what’s worse, you will find that you have given your families or friends many kinds of gifts and you cannot give them the same any more. Then what other else could be the best gifts?

Why don’t you consider Warm USB Glove? Let’s go to ShopofDeal to have a look. There are so many cute and lovely warm usb gloves for your choice.

Warm Usb Glove is first-rate. It adopts Mitsubishi thermal fabric imported from Japan. It is a washable, hygienic and healthy product made from plush materials. Warm USB Glove is also waterproof and its service life is as longs as 50 years.

Does she like Hello Ktty? Then take a Hello Kitty Cartoon Warm Usb Glove for her. Or does he like bears? There’s Smart Bear Cartoon Warm USB Glove for him. Metoo Cartoon Warm USB Glove, Daodog Cartoon Warm USB Glove, Daodog Cartoon Warm USB Glove, and so on.

Attractive articles, aren’t they?

What a surprising price! US.80! The price is very reasonable for the size of your wallet. Take only one pair? Why not take ten pairs? Shipping ten pairs charges you the same as shipping one pair.

Give your families and friends a warm winter. Not only warm their hands, but also warm their hearts!

Question by Fly girl: Does your family show affection to each other? Hugs, kisses and “I love you’s”?
My family was never affectionate but you knew the love was “in the air.”

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Do You Have Trouble Showing Affection?

Affection is one of the most basic forms of communication in both the human and animal kingdom. We have all watched movies of gorillas and other primates gently patting their offspring on the head or otherwise caressing them. A human mother shows her affection for her child by constantly making eye contact, smiling and touching them.

The baby responds by smiling at the mother and being nutured to grow into childhood with a serene and stable attitude towards life. Indeed the textbooks of psychology are full of stories of young children who have been denied this contact from their mother. These unfortunate children have lost a basic and essential part of their growing up and never regain it.

Some nations and races seem to have an inbuilt sense of affection and enjoy the physical and emotional things that affection brings to their lives. They often touch each other, frequently smile and have no hesitation in putting their arm around another’s shoulder or giving them a kiss of affection.

Other more formal and stoic peoples feel quite uneasy when they see these demonstrations of affection. To them the sight of a man kissing another man on both cheeks as it is done in France and Italy, can be disturbing and strange and for them a man who gives an affectionate kiss to a woman is being both disrespectful and improper. Indeed there are some countries where the public demonstration of affection is forbidden by law and carries severe penalties such as prison.

We need to be able to show affection to those to whom we would like to show affection. By this I mean being able to kiss our children and hug them and to be able to give our wives or partners a kiss and a hug without having to think about it first. A father kisses his baby son and hugs him when he is a young child. Why does he so often give this practice up as the boy grows older. Telling the boy that big men do not do those things and that they are for sissies only will cause the boy’s spirit to be restricted.

What a shame! How beautiful it is to see a father hug and kiss his adult son, in a public place, and what a wonderful message this gives to all that see him do so. In marriage, affection between husband and wife often goes away as children come along and life becomes tumultuous and troublesome. Is it any wonder Barbara Streisand sang a song “He doesn’t bring me flowers any more”?

Affection is the glue that will hold together both the marriage and the family through times of trouble, whether they be financial or otherwise. It is saying that they care for each other and will always do so.

In families where the children have always seen their parents being affectionate to each other, where their father has brought home flowers for their mother and where their mother has always been considerate of their father, those children will in turn have better and more stable
relationships. In short, they have been brought up to believe that this is how things should be.
 
In today’s world of litigation and political correctness, we can no longer pat someone on the shoulder whom we do not know well for fear that our motives will be misunderstood. However, we must not allow ourselves to deny basic affection to those who are close to us and we should not withdraw into ourselves and thus deny others contact with us.
 
Affection if given freely will grow like wildflowers and make all of us feel the joy of participating in the great adventure that we call life.

What can be more romantic than sending a single red rose stem or a floral bouquet to someone you love on Valentine’s Day to show love and affection?

The tradition of sending flowers on Valentine’s Day dates back many, many years. St Valentine is depicted as being the saint of lovers. February 14th is the day dedicated to this Saint in the United Kingdom, America and many European countries.

The Victorians used Valentine’s Day and the sending of flowers as a coded ‘message’ to lovers or those to whom they were attracted. The surprise and intrigue for Victorian women was to try and decipher the code and who sent the flowers; those who thought they were admired and failed to receive a Valentine’s Day gift of flowers would become distraught and despaired! This tradition lives on for millions people-they eagerly await a delivery of flowers only to be desperately disappointed if there wishes are not brought to fruition. Wives, husbands, partners and lovers feel neglected and rejected if they do not receive a Valentine’s gift on February 14th.

The ease of ordering flowers and gifts for Valentine’ Day online provides little in the way of excuses for those who forget! A bunch of flowers grabbed from the supermarket or petrol station on the way home has no comparison with those which are brought from a florists for many women and men. Careful and thoughtful flowers arranged and presented by skilled florists are the only acceptable type of Valentine’s flowers in many people’s eyes!

Florists will deliver flowers to any type of destination within the UK-whether it be to a home address or workplace. One great advantage of using online ordering is the availability of adding other gifts to the order-chocolates in delightful heart-shaped boxes, helium balloons declaring love, a bottle of heady red or fruity white wine or a soft and cuddly teddy bear added to the Valentine’s gift will be greatly received without doubt, showing that the sender has gone that little bit further to impress and please their lover. Gifts other than flowers are ideal for those who suffer from allergies to pollens which can be sent by florists to provide the same impressive impact.

Flamboyant bouquets, the bigger the better, are becoming popular ways to show affection and admiration, especially when delivered to workplaces. Large bouquets containing the same flower type, typically red roses, will provide a very ‘showy’ and ostentatious declaration of love and affection for all to admire.

Although traditionally it is men who send flowers to their show their love and affection, more and more women are choosing to send flowers to men on Valentine’s Day. There are many different flowers, as well as red roses are being selected by women. The saucy anthuriums, with its heart-shaped crimson flower and large creamy beacon send a message which does not leave much to the imagination as to the sender’s intentions!

Valentine’s Day Flowers delivered anonymously will add to the intrigue and magic on this one day of the year dedicated to lovers young and old- a great way to show someone you really love and care for them.