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Just Had Baby and Everytime I Hug My Husband or He Hugs Me I Cry?
Baby's 1st Holiday - Easter! asked:
I can't help it. I love him so much and he's so good to me. I love our baby son we just had more than anyone or anything. I know I am emotional with all the hormones and everything. I feel bad for him, he's 27 and I am 22 and I look awful. Stretch marks everywhere stomach is all mishaped, flabby and hanging there. He doesn't mind at all though, but it bothers me and I love him and can't stop crying when we hug.
kisses and hugs
I can't help it. I love him so much and he's so good to me. I love our baby son we just had more than anyone or anything. I know I am emotional with all the hormones and everything. I feel bad for him, he's 27 and I am 22 and I look awful. Stretch marks everywhere stomach is all mishaped, flabby and hanging there. He doesn't mind at all though, but it bothers me and I love him and can't stop crying when we hug.
kisses and hugs
Tags: Stomach, Baby Son, Hormones
Congrats on the new baby!!! Don’t worry about your body. You just had a baby, it’s not going to just pop back into place. It takes time and effort. Sure we see all these stars that just had babies then are back to flat stomachs. We don’t see them when they are leaving the hospital with the baby or right after they have them. They also have the money to hire nannies to watch their babies while they work out like crazy to get their body back. It’s ok, you belly is supposed to be mishaped right now. It will return to normal soon.
From the date that your name says you only had your baby recently. It might just be a case of the baby blues, don’t worry about it. It happens to everyone. You just gave birth to a beautiful(I’m sure) baby boy, your body has changed.. Just see those stretchmarks as a sign of what you have bought into the world. Your tummy will go back slightly as your uterus contracts. Enjoy your hubby and your baby!
First off, congrats on your new baby, who just happened to be born on my 40th birthday! What you are experiencing is completely normal. It will take some time to get back to your normal body & you are absolutely right about the hormones. You might want to look around your area or the internet for support groups for new moms.
Oh bless you, I know exactly how you feel! Did you have your baby just a few days ago?
It sounds like you’re having a bit of the baby blues..
Lots and lots of mothers go through this a few days after they give birth. Think about all those hormones that are swimming around your body, they’re bound to make you feel a bit weepy.
My advice is to cry, whenever and wherever you feel like it. Let it out, and don’t worry too much. It will pass I promise you.
Your husband probably loves you more now than he has ever done; you have just given birth to his child! Your stretch marks will fade, your stomach will shrink, and everything will feel better if you give it time.
You have just been through a massive life changing experience, and it’s normal to be a bit overwhelmed.
You’ll look back in a few weeks, and wonder what you were so worried about!
Best of luck
x
congratulations on the baby. i just had a baby too. and i hate the way my body looks also. and what your going through is normal. just don’t think anything is wrong with you because nothing is. give it time and everything will go back to the way it was. except you have a baby and that makes everything perfect. Good look sweet heart.
Congrats! my hubby and i are the same age as you and your hubby. and i had the same experience when i got home from the hospital. stretchmarks and flab. heck even happy things made me cry. you’ve got baby blues. it should pass in a week or so just give things times to return to normal on your body and let yourself get used to that beautiful new baby. if it doesn’t get better and you start feeling more depressed let your dr. know when you go for your six week check up. he will probably give you MDS to help if its post partum depression. good luck and Enjoy your baby im confident you will get better.
Congrats on the birth of your baby boy!!
What you are feeling is normal and will pass in a few weeks, i cried alot at first but as things get easier and your body returns to normal you you start to feel better. Dont forget you have just had a baby which is a big deal and you know need to allow yourself time to get back to normal and its good that your husband is supportive and caring as mine is, it really helps. Good luck in the future with your little one X Keep smiling :)
Don’t feel bad for him…he’s probably on the same high you are, and I’m sure things like that are not a concern for him. Just enjoy the moment and make sure you guys keep a good bond as a couple. It’s important for your baby to know he’s a part of a family.
On Becoming Baby Wise is a great book for new parents. It’s helped me and my wife a lot.
Congratulations!
It sounds to me like you have the baby blues. don’t worry honey it does get easier! Try not to focus too much on your body right now as it took 9 months for your body to grow a baby and give it the same amount of time for it to get back to normal. your stretch marks may not disappear but they will fade. i’m sure your partner loves you very much and supports you though this difficult time. consentrate on that little baby boy and before you know it everything will be back to normal!! Good luck and enjoy being a mum..
With all of your hormones changing and lack of sleep emotions run wild. It takes time for your body and mind to get back to normal. You will feel better emotionally in a little while. I cried every evening when my son was first born. Sometimes you need to just take a quick drive by yourself and let someone watch your baby it really helps.