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I Have an Aquaintence Who Bear Hugs Me Everytime I See Her?

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She is a BIG girl and she pulls me to her like a sumo wrestler, and it is soo dominating- I need some cunning person to tell me how to stop this without direct accusation and hurting her .

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5 Responses to “I Have an Aquaintence Who Bear Hugs Me Everytime I See Her?”

  • John C:

    Make your breath smell bad. Eat garlic, onions and the like, and she will eventually stay away a bit.

    Also, when in conversation with her, just say something like:
    ‘Ooh, my ribs are hurting. I bruised them badly at the weekend.’

    I’d say try the second one first.

  • Liz in MI:

    Just say “please be careful my ribs are fragile”.

  • wishnuwelltoo:

    Well I just tell people I don’t like to be touched because I was beaten as a child. It is true, so people don’t get offended. My mother has arthritis, so she tells people to be careful of her.

  • Lisa M:

    that is a tough one. The only way would be to make like you don’t like touching, hugs, greeting kisses, etc. You would have to think of some kind of story for her to hear or some way for you to relate this dislike of intimate greetings.

  • intheyeofthebeholder:

    Ok heres my tip, next time she hugs you.. fart. lol kidding.

    Tell her you’ve been exercising vigorously, have an injury and your sore all over if she hugs you youll scream in agony. Ionno I always get myself out of thse situations.